Re: [低調的分享]Kit在"安娜與安娜"首映會的心得分享

看板KITCHAN (陳潔儀)作者bigcat9 (不綁鞋帶的大貓)時間17年前 (2007/11/22 22:11)推噓0(0推 0噓 0→)

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影片又重新放上去了,短LINK: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JbgQrXKrSGA

Kit講的話也有啦! 中文一併附上感謝KCC幫主Ting做的文字記錄, 並幫我校正譯稿 Kit的思考有她一貫的內省風格, 比她少年, 寫那首詩時候成熟許多尤其她很能掌握自己要傳達的信息, 對RGS的學姐學妹們即使這只是個首映會另外我想對這位, 既有Sense又有文才, 又不寫部落格的人說: 「根據科學研究, 聽眾如果只靠聽覺, 70%以上的內容會忘光光」還是幫你記下來先! :) I'm 35 this year and for the first time in my life, I joined the corporate world. Well, for a lot of people, it's the other way round. They start off slogging in the corporate world, and then suddenly they go, "ok, I'm gonna break off and be an artiste." I was very lucky, I left school and immediately became an artiste for 15 years and then suddenly, I think, "wait a minute.. I'm missing out on life" The life, that you know that.. everybody else has. I was very lucky, like SN said , to have lived my dream.. and you are totally right, we had that conversation before this. 我在今年35歲時，首次踏入白領上班族的世界。當然，對大部份人來說，這是另一種生涯循環。他們都是從公司上班開始奮鬥，有天忽然想離開，＂好囉，我要脫離上班日子去當個藝人！＂我很幸運，我離開學校後馬上當了藝人，一當就是１５年，然後忽然想到：＂等下..我輸掉了我的生活＂生活，你知道，每個人都擁有的那種，我非常幸運，像ＳＮ講的，可以夢寐以求，我的事業竟然是我的夢想。。(看著SN) 我們之前也談過，而且你也說的對。 It's true that when you have achieved your dream, it's not quite what you think. Not saying that it's not good, but it's not like.. you think you see fireworks and champagne popping, and it isn't like that. But if you have worked really hard for it, you do feel a deep sense of satisfaction, it becomes very earthy, very real..and nothing like woo..you know, it's not delirious.. 的確，當你已經完成了你的夢，它跟你想的不大一樣。不是說它不美好，只是它不是你以為的那麼烟火輝煌、香檳四射；成功不是這樣的。但如果你為了它歷盡艱苦，努力打拼，你真的會有一種深刻的滿足感，成功是很腳踏實地，實實在在的，不是像，噢～～那種虛幻不切實際的事。 And the other thing was, this doppelganger thing, I think I am going through it everyday. I carry two namecards. One is, I'm at Hill&Knowlton, PR consultancy, so there's that namecard that says "campaign specialist", and there's another one that belongs to my management and it's kept in the same namecard holder, and so depending on which role I am playing, if somebody talks to me, like a PR professional, there comes out the PR card, or if somebody says, the moment they go.. "oh.. could we invite you…Ok, that management card comes out, and I say "Don't speak to me. Speak to my manager" And so, it's a constant negotiation between all the different roles to play. And I don't think you need to an artiste/pr professional to do that, I think all of us are switching between the roles of being a mother, a wife, a girlfriend, a teacher, a student, so I think all of us have our struggles. 還有一件事，關於＂另一個自己＂的事情，我想我每天都經歷著這種生活。我帶著兩張名片兩種身份，一個是偉達(Hill & Knowlton)的公關顧問，名片上寫著＂活動企宣＂，還有另外一個是我的藝人管理，兩種名片都收在我的名片夾中，就看我當時扮演哪一種角色，如果有人跟我談公關方面的事情，公關名片就跳出來；或者某人說，現在他們要做某事，＂嗯，我們可以請你來嗎？。。＂那藝人管理名片就會跳出來，＂別跟我談，請跟我的經紀人商量＂，像這樣，不停地去調適、扮演兩個截然不同的角色，我想你不必是藝人／公關的角色才能體會，我想我們都要切換在很多角色當中，比如母親，妻子，女朋友，老師，學生等，我們都會在不同的角色中掙扎、矛盾與對抗。 And I was thinking before I came here today if I have to say the one thing that I think is important for making tough decisions in life, it would be faith. I would say it is faith. Why do I say that? I think we all, it's common knowledge, we know we need to work hard, we need to persevere, we all know all these things, it's just a matter of can you get down and do it. But I realise that with the toughest choices I had to make in life, whether it was career, relationships, relocation (geographically), it was always faith, it had to be something bigger than myself because I know my own limits, and I know I can't, we all know oh yah, we gotta be responsible for what we do, but sometimes, we know that ok.. should things go really bad.. or should things go really well, it's sorta out of your hand. Anyway, it is… For me, I'm not just talking about a religious faith. For me, it is. It could be the philosophy you hold, it could be someone you love, but you have to have a belief that is outside of yourself, I feel and that way, I think you can weather all the difficulties in life, you can live with the mistakes you make, and enjoy the successes you have. And so yah, this is my take on it, and thank you. Thank you all. 我來這裡之前有思考過，我想講給各位的事情，是做生命中重大決定時很重要的一件事，就是保持信心，我會說那就是信心。為何我要提這個？我想我們都會，這是常識，我們知道必須辛勤工作，必須堅持到底，我們都瞭解諸如此類的事，這取決於你能否記下它並真的照做。但我體認到，生命中種種最重大的決定──職業，人際關係，遷往別地（地理上的），都需要信心去克服，無疑地某些事大過我的範圍，因為我知道我是有限的，知道我有所不能，我們都瞭解的，沒錯我們必須為我們做的事負責任，但有時候，我們知道那種。。萬一事情變得很糟糕呢，或者變得非常成功呢，事情多少超出你的掌握。總之，對我而言，我想說的不止是宗教上的信心，雖然對我它是的；它可能是你奉行的哲學，可能是某個你愛的人，但你必須有超乎你以外的信心，我感覺到那方法，我想你必能度過生命中所有的困難，你能跟你犯的錯安然度日，亦能享受你得來不易的成就。這就是，今次我要帶給大家的訊息，謝謝，謝謝各位。 -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc) ◆ From: 61.64.106.22 ※ 編輯: bigcat9 來自: 61.64.106.22 (11/24 00:14) ※ 編輯: bigcat9 來自: 61.64.106.22 (12/18 22:55)